Friday, January 16, 2009

Manja biar berpada

nawfal: papa jom la beli jam abang... jom la papa...
papa: nk beli jam pe? kat mane? u had 2 already. sume rosak, camane papa nk belikan lg?
nawfal: alaaa abg naaaaakkkk! jom la papa (merengek2)
papa: jam power rangers abg mane?
nawfal: x tau mane. dh jatuh... jom la papa!
papa: see! x reti jage brg sendiri. kalau nk papa beli kene la pandai jage brg. jgn hilangkan. kalau xnk pon make sure simpan bebaik. ok?
nawfal: ok! tp naaaaakkk! nak jam baru... (menangis ngade2)
papa: nnt la w'end kite beli. ni dh nk mlm, esok nk skool lg. w'end eh? kalau nk skang abg pakai jam tu la dulu (pointing to the wall clock. sengal la papa nih. bleh buat lawak pulak :P)
nawfal: hehehe (bleh gelak pulak tuh :P) tu x bleh pakai kt tgn la papa. jom la, abg nak sekarang! (mama dh x tahan dh nih nk masok campo. melampau dh nih! isk!)
mama: (baru nk bkk mulot membebel. tetibe atuk dtg to the rescue)
atuk: haa nih atuk dh jmpe jam abg
nawfal: atuk jmpe kt mane?
atuk: kt moto pak lang tu haa
nawfal: tq atuk... papa tlg pakai kan... :)

Tu kalau atuk x interupt tuh x tau la pe jd. Samada mama 'naik hantu' atau pun mama drive pegi carik jam baru :P

That's part of it. Kalau x bg kesian je tgk. Kalau asik bg je bleh masuk dlm kategori 'spoil'. Nawfal is only 2 yrs 7mths old, tp dia dh tau demand itu ini. Kite saiko dia, dia saiko kite balik. Isk! S'times i just gave him what he wants bcoz i couldn't stand the nags & cries :P S'times konon-konon aku keras hati jgk. Tp at the end mesti x smpai hati. Hubby slalu marah psl nih, dia kate nnt mua la bdk tuh nnt. Sume mintak sume bg (on-the-dot!). Dh x reti dh nk paham NO or tak boleh, later sure mkn diri aku sendiri. & s'times i couldn't help myself (inlcuding papa & atuk), bribe him wt sweets so that he will ikot kate. Bad isn't it? Dh jd amalan, hard to turn back. Bace mcm2 pasal parenting & kids, but to implement it in real life, it's really hard. One thing for sure, it's all abt discipline! Yes, that's the word!

Ermm any other best practices x camane nk handle bende nih?? I read abt it here. Hope it helps a lil bit ;)

6 comments:

MS said...

setuju sangat dengan artikel tu
ku pun sedaya upaya praktis tidak melayan kehendak adib.

Contoh jika dia minta nak mkn kfc hari ni.. aku tidak akan terus ikut kehendak dia, boleh tapi bukan hari ni.. tunggu wekend

event nak gula2 50cent pun tak boleh beli tang tang tu jgk keh keh keh. aku tau banar adib ni jika di layan tiap kali g laa dia nak.

tapi memang betul laa antara baca buku and implementation memang susah ooo

waa terpanjang sudah

Ziana said...

kalau aku jd ko pon kan..
aku x sampai hati..
sure aku bagi gak..

ermmm.. mmg spoil bdk..
tp camno? x sanggup nk tgk..
bebudk skang plak pandai saiko kan
:)

YANI said...

susah kekadang nak layan budak2 ni..either nak penuhi(sbb kesianla ni kan) or nak biar...kalau biar, dia byk pulak jawabnya..kalau ikutkan..spoil lak kan..maybe takleh nak ikutkan sellau kot..kena berpada2..(hehe..sendiripun susah nak kontrol ni...)

Anonymous said...

erk! eerrr... hmmmm...
susahnya bila dia dh pandai demand.
adohai! camner klu yg dlm tummy ni kuar nnt... kene prepair dr skang nih. adeh~!

:: m.i.s.s.+s.y.a :: said...

kene ade pro contra la..
takut gak kan bile manje kan sgt, bile dh besar dia tak tau mcm mane nk blaja susah dlu..
klu me.. dh buat2 masuk tdo...smggu kendian br belikan..huhu :P

Ms Lola said...

Ahaha. LOL. Tang nak suh Nawfal pakai jam dinding tu yg tak tahan sekali!